Steven and Rhyl Croshaw share why it’s important to be open and compassionate while addressing the issues of pornography and sexual addiction.
Do we tell the children?
If you or someone you love is struggling with a pornography or sexual addiction, it’s common to wonder if and when family members, especially children and teenagers, should learn about the addictive behaviors. This is a delicate issue that often requires seeking the counsel of a trusted professional who specializes in treating pornography and sexual…
The Importance of Disclosure
Just read a great article on disclosure. There can’t be enough said about the importance of a proper disclosure in the sexual addiction recovery process. Regardless if the behavior is pornography, sexual acting out with another person, or anything else, it’s critical that the injured partner know the reality of the situation. Failure to disclose…
Isolation and Self-Loathing
I think one of the most dangerous conditions a recovering individual can experience is the combination of feeling self-loathing and isolation. Self-loathing, or shame, is a common experience for those in recovery. It is usually something most recovering individuals feel long before their addiction starts (as you know, addiction is actually a cover-up for feelings…
Who should we tell?
Those who struggle with pornography addiction and other compulsive sexual behaviors often wonder how to handle disclosure about their struggle. Many of them spend years trying to keep their addiction secret. However, there comes a point where they desire to share the burden with another. This may happen accidentally when they are discovered by a…