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Real recovery from pornography and sexual addiction

Posted by on October 24th, 2013






Geoff Steurer, founding director of LifeStar of St. George, Utah, talks about why recovery needs to be REAL and involve REAL people, REAL answers, and REAL tools.

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The Drama of Attachment

Posted by on October 8th, 2013






by Jill Call, AMFT LifeStar Therapist “I must be crazy!” A woman recently expressed to me. “I want to love and feel emotionally safe with my husband at the same time that I want nothing to do with him.” Maybe you’ve felt like this woman – caught between competing feelings of “come close” and “get […]

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Heart of the Matter

Posted by on September 18th, 2013






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Healing Shame

Posted by on September 9th, 2013






Jeff Ford of LifeStar of St. George, UT explains how to manage shame in recovery from pornography and sexual addiction.

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Drama not Trauma

Posted by on September 2nd, 2013






by Noelle Christensen, LPC LifeStar Therapist Have you ever expressed your needs to your partner and been told “stop being so dramatic!” If so, it may have felt like the wind was knocked out of you. In fact, what you may have heard instead is something like, “What you are feeling does not matter to […]

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The Burnout Cure - author interview

Posted by on August 13th, 2013






In our LifeSTAR program we emphasize self-care for both the men and the women as a way to fight addiction and heal trauma. Physical, emotional, and spiritual self-care are essential to help individuals get grounded and do the hard work of recovery. I’ve been reading a new book by therapist Julie de Azevedo Hanks called […]

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Fighting Against Pornography- Part 1

Posted by on August 1st, 2013






The Broken Windows theory, developed more than 30 years ago, holds that police can stop higher levels of crime by giving more attention to the smaller crimes, such as breaking windows. By emphasizing law and order and a different level of community expectations, crime rates overall can be lowered. A lot of police and social […]

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Fighting Against Pornography- Part 2

Posted by on August 1st, 2013






Editor’s note: The following story deals with sexually-themed subject matter that will not be appropriate for some readers. Discretion is advised. This is part two in a four-part series. Read part one: “Ubiquitous assailant: The dangerous unasked questions surrounding pornography“. Read part 3: “Why laws to fight pornography aren’t being used.” Read part four: “How couples break the […]

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Fighting Against Pornography- Part 3

Posted by on August 1st, 2013






Editor’s note: The following story deals with sexually-themed subject matter that will not be appropriate for some readers. Discretion is advised. This is part three in a four-part series. Read part one: “Ubiquitous assailant: The dangerous unasked questions surrounding pornography.” Read part two: “Second-hand porn: the spreading circle of damage.” Read part four: “How couples break […]

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Fighting Against Pornography Part 4

Posted by on August 1st, 2013






SALT LAKE CITY — With an eye toward both preventing and recovering from the devastating impacts of pornography, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has launched a new website that is based on what one therapist calls “the enabling power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ.” The website is titled “Overcoming Pornography Through the […]

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